Top 20 Things to Write in a Wedding Card (Besides Congratulations)

We’ve all been there. You’ve got the perfect wedding card, and after writing “Congratulations!” your mind goes blank. Surely you need to say something more to your sister / housemate / colleague / long lost relative on the biggest day of their life?

Collctiv has helped hundreds of thousands of people organise and contribute to wedding gifts and greeting cards. Here’s a collection of our 20 best.

1. May the best of your todays be the worst of your tomorrows.
2. Cheers to the newlyweds and your happily ever after.
3. May you always be as happy as you are today.
4. Match. Made. In. Heaven.
5. Here’s to a lifetime of love, friendship and adventure.
6. May your forever be long enough together.
7. Married life is the best life.
8. Cheers to the newlyweds and your happily ever after.
9. Forever looks good on you.
10. Together forever is a beautiful place to be.
11. Some things are meant to be. And you two are “some things”.
12. We can’t help falling in love…with you guys!
13. Cheers to your new life as Mr. & Mrs. [insert last name here]!
14. May your love story continue with endless joy, laughter and adventure.
15. So you’re saying Cupid does exist!
16. For every pot, there’s a lid. So glad you found yours.
17. Cheers to your new beginning!
18. Here’s to love, laughter, and your happily ever after.
19. Happy Wife, Happy Life.
20. Happiness is being married to your best friend. May you be besties for life!

Adding the Personal Touch to Your Message

While a short, punchy quote is great for a standard card, sometimes the relationship warrants a bit more depth. If you are writing to a sibling or a lifelong friend, consider adding a specific memory or an "inside joke" before the formal congratulations. For example, referencing the first time they mentioned their partner or a funny moment from their early dating days can make your message feel truly bespoke. If you’re part of a group gift, you can even reference the collective excitement of the squad; something like, "We’ve all been waiting for this day since [Year], and we couldn't be happier to see you two make it official!"

The Art of the Group Message

When you’re the one organising a group gift through Collctiv, you often find yourself in charge of a "digital card" or a long list of names. To keep things from looking cluttered, try to coordinate a theme for everyone’s messages. You might suggest that everyone shares their "Top Tip for a Happy Marriage" or their favourite memory of the couple. This turns a simple list of names into a sentimental keepsake that the couple can read through on their honeymoon.

It’s also worth considering the tone of the wedding. If it’s a formal black-tie affair in a stately home, you might lean towards the more classic, elegant quotes from our list. However, if it’s a relaxed festival-style wedding in a field, don't be afraid to be a bit more cheeky or informal. The best messages are the ones that sound like you—so don’t feel pressured to use "thees" and "thous" if you usually communicate in emojis and slang!

Using Collctiv to Coordinate the "Big Gift"

Don't forget that the message is only half the battle; the gift completes the sentiment. If you’ve chosen one of our 20 messages but feel like your individual gift feels a bit small, why not use Collctiv to scale up? By pooling contributions from the whole office or the entire "university gang," you can attach your heartfelt message to a high-impact gift like a luxury honeymoon experience or a piece of designer furniture for their new home.

When you share your Collctiv link, you can even include one of these quotes in the description of the money pot to set the tone right from the start. It shows the couple that you aren't just sending money—you’re sending a collective hug from everyone who cares about them. By taking the stress out of the "money talk," you can spend more time perfecting your penmanship and ensuring your message is the one they remember most.

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